The next Dream Year Weekend is June 3-5 in Washington D.C. The event will be hosted at the ultra cool Ebenezer’s Coffee Shop (recently voted best coffee shop in D.C.). Attendees will be navigating, dissecting, clarifying, and monetizing the dream that is floating around in their hearts and minds.

My experience at Dream Year Weekend was pivotal. It gave me the clarity I needed to pull off an amazing event, and the confidence I needed to know that I can survive in the world as an entrepreneur someday.

No matter the size, scope, or context of your dream, I can’t encourage you enough to find a way to make it to Washington D.C. in early June to learn from Ben and several other incredible leaders. Act fast. The event is limited to 70 attendees, and the cheapest registration rate ends this Friday (April 29th). Visit the Dream Year website to learn more and register today.

*This was not a solicited post. I mean every word of what is written above. So don’t go getting any wild ideas.*

A few things about the film. First off, it was a wonderfully made documentary. It’s no wonder that it was an Academy Award nominee. It was everything you’d hope a documentary to be: informative, engaging, and inspiring of change.

If you’re not familiar, the movie essentially tells the story of how America has become slave to the fast/junk food industry. The movie peels back the layers of an onion showing how nearly every american family is negatively affected by a food production and marketing system that is controlled in every way imaginable by a few key multi-billion dollar corporations. It was simultaneously stunning to see the connections, and discouraging to see just how manipulated the system is.

The difficult part to manage is the reality that it is decidedly more expensive to avoid participating in “the system”. Whether that means eating organic, shopping locally, or avoiding cheap calories. It is seemingly easier and cheaper* to grab a double cheeseburger at McDonalds than to whip up a whole food alternative. *(The idea of “hidden cost” explored in the film would argue otherwise. Here is a great article discussing this issue in brief form.)

After finishing the movie and before going to bed, I convinced myself that my eating habits would change. Then I woke up, accomplished a few tasks, and enjoyed a ridiculously unhealthy nacho dish at a local burrito joint that was likely loaded with ingredients I was unaware of, and were referenced in the documentary. Ashamed of my behavior, I come to confess to my blog readers and ask for you thoughts.

So I pose a few questions:

• Why is it so difficult to change out eating habits? I suppose it’s really no different than other habits we wish to change/add/subtract, but it would seem that our eating has a special hold on us due to the natural and unnatural “drugs” involved. Namely, the big 3: sugar, salt, & fat.
• Have you seen the movie Food Inc?
• If so, has it changed your eating habits? Your grocery buying habits?
• Finally, for you parents out there: Do your kids regularly eat fast/junk food? If so, viewing this film may curb some of those dining habits. The statistics about teenage obesity and type 2 diabetes are beyond alarming.

So, what are your thoughts? Are you the type to just chalk it up to “liberal agenda” that should be ignored, or are these real issues affecting countless generations? Please share…

The beauty of thinking about past and future adventures is the realization that most often don’t unfold alone. Adventure happens in community. My adventures have and will happen with my wonderful wife, and the wonderful group of friends who surround me and serve as co-adventurers.

In this vein, I stumbled upon this photo essay (here for slide show. here for list.) that I linked to off of the Cincinnati Enquirer’s website. It’s a collection of 101 things to try in 2011 in the Greater Cincinnati area. I thought it would be a fun blog and/or Facebook exercise for everyone to share the list of the things they’ve done, and the things they’d like to do in 2011. After all, if you can’t adventure in your own backyard, how will you do so in any other context?

Here’s both of my lists and a quick nod to the friends whom accompanied me on the journey.

The things I’ve always wanted to do, and hope to make happen in 2011.

I deeply appreciate the multitude of friendships and acquaintances I have, and I love how tools like Twitter and Facebook (and silly iPhone Scrabble game) bring these relationships into the forefront of my life on a daily basis. Here are some people I consider friends:

• A young executive in Cincinnati who is one of the youngest managers in his company.
• Missionaries in Guatemala and Russia who give their lives to far away people.
• A bank executive who wields his influence in the Church as masterfully as he does in the corporate world.
• A married couple who are youth pastor and executive assistant who are both on staff at a very large, very influential church in San Diego.
• A former college basketball star who played 7 professional seasons oversees.
• A dynamic motivational speaker who produces amazing school assemblies and impacts youth culture in Southern California.
• An entrepreneur who takes huge risks and creates awesome environments for church leaders and communicators of all types.
• A college student in Florida who moved 1,000 miles away from home without a car, because he’s pursuing God’s call on his life.
• A husband and wife in Kansas City who are changing the landscape of the adoption system in America.
• A pair of musician siblings in Nashville who are chasing their dreams, and fully embracing the starving artist lifestyle.

These are just a few of the cool people in my life. I haven’t told you about the amazing youth leaders, parents, and 9-5′ers in my life.

Who are some of the interesting people in your life?

This Fall I attended (actually served at) a brand new conference/event called STORY. I volunteered for 2 reasons: 1.) Then digital (now real life) friend of mine named Ben Arment was the founder and architect of the event. 2.) There is something about the word ‘story’, and the concept of stories that stirs something deep within my soul. I knew I needed to be at this event.

At the conference everyone received a bag with all kinds of promo, conference info, and a free issue of a magazine called Collide. This particular issue of collide had the word ‘STORY’ written on the front in a very cool font (liken it to dangling a shiny object in front of me). I liked it, but apparently not enough to read it.

I’m typing this blog on a plane via the WordPress app on my iPhone (I love technology). Up until now, my iPhone and all of its marevelous apps has merely served as means of providing a soundtrack (John Mayer, Switchfoot, Johsua Radin). This is primarily because I have been reading the afformentioned magazine. Turns out this issue contained all sorts of articles that captured my attention, and directly addressed a topic that I’ve found myself engrossed in lately: The idea of leveraging our lives to tell a story, and our participation in a Grand Story.

I think that it is no coincidence that I have chosen to read this 6 month old magazine while on a plane travelling to Florida where I’m spending the next 7 days primarily alone, at my friends house in Bradenton caring for his dogs while he is out of town. I have a full plate of work planned for these 7 days, but I’ve made the commitment to myself, to others, and to God that a primary purpose of this trip will be focused dreaming, thinking, and listening.

I’m listening to, observing, and participating in The Story. I’m confident the next 7 days will be providential for my life, ministry, and future.

The main point of my talk was that I did not want our students to rely on myself, our church, and other adult leaders in their life as dispensers of spiritual knowledge. Instead I challenged them to allow our moments together to inspire them to seek God at a new level on their own. From their I shared these points ideas centered around the idea of setting some personal spiritual growth goals for the new year:

1. You have to know where you’re going before you can get there (write it down).
2. Your direction determines your destination (your actions determine where you actually go).
3. Share with someone. Accountability is key.

I then had each student write down some goals. Some actions steps to go with those goals. Then they shared some or all of them with the group. It was awesome!! I loved hearing what the students felt like they needed to do in order to take the next step in their personal relationship with God.

Being faithful to my own principle #3 above, here are my goals:

1. Read the whole Bible (this is partly a personal desire, and partly necessary requirement for a pastoral process I am going through.)
2. Study the Redemptive Story of God at a deeper level (this is a concept that I have been engrossed by lately…)
3. Further develop and understand my personal theology. Some people use their theology as a weapon… I’m not interested in that. I do however feel like it is important to know what you believe, and why you believe so. I think this is an ever evolving process.
4. Intentionally develop and disciple another Christ follower. Every believer should have someone in their life that they are loving on, and journeying with. It’s a calling on each of our lives.

Those are my goals for 2009. They scare me. They excite me. How about yours?

I have a confession. To anyone who knows me this should not be a secret: I really (really really really) like sports. I like to watch them. I love to play them. I get wrapped up talking about them. My dream job would be that of a sports talk radio show host.

Here’s the thing though. I don’t just like one sport. I become engrossed by just about ANY sport. Seriously. Off the top of my head, if given the opportunity I would watch these sports on live or on TV: baseball, basketball, football, futbol, hockey, boxing, mma, nascar, golf, tennis, and horse racing.

Don’t get me wrong. I’m not ashamed of any of this. People have passions. One of mine is sports, and I’m totally okay with that! The only problem I have is when I catch myself watching some sporting event on TV, and I come to the realization that I’m wasting a large amount of time watching a game that I have no rooting interest in. So…

I think I have a solution. Maybe solution is the wrong word. Maybe more like a commitment. Of all of the major sports I listed above, the one I care least about is NBA basketball. I don’t have a team that I deeply care about  (I root for the Cavs because they are close, and I’m fascinated by Lebron). So with that in mind, I have made the following decision. I’m not going to watch NBA basketball games this year. The season starts tomorrow. I won’t be watching. I’ll catch the highlights on SportsCenter, but I won’t invest large amounts of time watching games I don’t really care about.

What will I do with my extra time? I dunno. Hopefully something productive. I’m not going to say: “Everytime I could be watching the NBA, I’ll read the Bible”. Sure, that’s a great goal, but probably not something I’ll be able to accomplish. My only goal is to not watch the NBA, and to do my best to use that time productively. Talk to my wife. Read a book. Write a blog. Clean the house. Anything but the NBA. Until the playoffs… I’ll have to watch Kobe vs. Lebron in the Finals!

Confession: I crave the affirmation of others. It’s a weakness of my flesh. Sorry.

Back to my original thought. I like to write. Really… I do! I love to find new creative outlets. Recently I began writing a weekly recap column for the Fantasy Football League that I’ve been in for 4 years. It’s fun, I get to pretend like I’m an expert, and analyze meaningless fantasy football stats. I even give away weekly awards. It’s sort of an homage to Peter King’s weekly Monday Morning Quarterback article on www.si.com

Recently I’ve been feeling an urge to blog again. Not sure why. I think I just need an outlet. I’ve been reading more lately than I have in several years. I want to share some of the things I’m learning, processing, and struggling with.

I’m embarrassed by my lack of consistency in blogging. Every time I end an e-mail with my signature, I see my blog address, and hope that the person on the other end won’t visit the blog. I hope they’ll see my Twitter URL and check that out instead. I’m a good Twitterer!

All of that to say. I’m blogging again. Not for you. But for me. Hope that’s okay.

This story begs the question: Do you even know your neighbor?

http://www.foxnews.com/story/0,2933,511929,00.html

You know a story rattled me if it woke me out of a five month blogging slumber.

In my opinion though, today is special because it’s just like all of the other inauguration days in our country’s history. What a wonderful country we live in that we have such peaceful and graceful transitions of leadership. For at least this one day, many many people put aside their political stance and celebrate how wonderful and enduring our country is.

I’d like to take a moment to say hello to one man, and goodbye to another.

Hello President Obama. I don’t know much about you yet. I know that you are a very gifted speaker, and you appear to have a stoic presence in front of the camera. I know you are very appealing to my generation, and that you have created an intense interest in American politics for many who were disinterested before. I look forward to getting to know you. I will be praying for you and the tough decisions you will need to make. I hope in four or eight years we have great things to say and write about you. I hope the Change you have advertised will be a beautiful thing that will further embed our nation with the values, morals, and upstanding character that has made it such a great nation all along.

Goodbye President Bush. Eight years ago I was 16 years old and was not too concerned about the political process. Nine months into your presidency, everything about my world, our world, our country changed. From this day forward when I think back on your Presidency, I will forever remember the image of you standing on the rubble of the World Trade Center… I will remember you throwing out the first pitch at Yankee Stadium…. I will remember you standing tall and making tough decisions that you knew would not be popular with many people. I applaud your determination to lead for eight difficult years. You had the weight of the world on your shoulders, and although you were not always graceful in speech (sorry, had to), you were always graceful in character and stature. I wish you well as you leave The White House. I am happy for you that your time in office is over… you deserve retirement… you deserve to relax on your ranch in Crawford… you deserve to sit back and watch someone else take the heat for once. Thank you for your service. Enjoy the grandkids.